Missing somebody

Are you missing somebody..????

Yes we all do..Every person misses someone during many stages of their life, maybe his family, children, friends, loved ones and so on. so the question is why do we miss a person so badly sometimes?. The answer is that  person who we miss was wonderful and interesting in our lives, we were loved, cared, pampered by them and so we miss their love and care so badly and hence we miss that person.our happiness was given by them and our sorrows were cured too.now being all alone in a different place far away from her(that person),,we are unable to find the same joy and happiness..and then begins the feelings, you always think about her, the good times, all the fun you had with her, the unconditional love she has poured on you and now there is nothing but just her thoughts and memories and slowly your heart starts to cry thinking about her.." i should meet her soon..when will i meet her?".

When she was near you, never would have you thought that you'd miss her in future, that's because she was always with you and never gave you a chance to think about anything sad. Now she is gone far from you and she has given you one thing and that is her memories. There are many good things you learn when you miss someone, you begin to understand their value, when she was near you, her value wasn't felt, but now she isn't there near you and now you get to know the real worthiness of her.

Missing my MOTHER 

i myself didn't give a damn about my mom, i thought i could be away from her and live happily. Once i went for a NCC camp when i was in my 9th grade, it was a 10 day camp, the food was horrible, stay even more horrible. I fell sick there and there was no one to care of me and i was lonely and felt bad..when i called my mother from the camp..i began to cry, i just spoke "hello amma" ( mother in Tamil) and no more words came out from my mouth, only emotions came along. This was the first time i missed my mom in my teenage, that day i understood the value of my mother, her love and care is unmatched even to the luxuries of this world.." i love mom, always". When i became sick at home, she used to give her heart to take care of me in spite of her weakness. That's what we call mother's love and everyone needs it. I feel mother's love is next to God's love. You may forget your mom sometimes, but your mom thinks about you every second even if she is sleeping in her grave..so lets respect and love our mom's...

Missing my GRANDPARENTS

 During my 5th grade summer vacations, i went to my grandparents place, i spend a one whole month there, played all day, watched my favorite cartoons, ate a lot and enjoyed a lot there.Then i returned home and started crying, i really missed my grandparents, their love and care was so innocent and they saw me as something precious.Now after many years i don't go to their place frequently as before, but they call and ask me "what happen rufus, you forgot these two old people ? " and i feel so pity about it. I wanted them when i was a kid and now they want me as they grow older, so i made it a point to visit them at least  twice in a month  and it gives them so much happiness as if i'm giving them a million rupees. The world values only money and only in few places alone people are valued more then money, to my grandparents i'm more valued than money and i feel proud about it. So my request to the people reading this blog is that if your grandparents are alive, then atleast once in a month visit them because you are their greatest joy in life.

Missing my CITY

I was born and brought up in chennai and whenever i go to other cities for camps or other occasions, i do enjoy the city i'm visiting, but still deep down in my heart i miss my chennai, because its my home.In future if i get a job in some other city, i don't know how i'm going to live there for years, hope i get a good job in chennai itself.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST......Missing your LOVE

I mean girlfriend or boyfriend, wife or husband....This feeling comes when you are in love with a person truly, you miss that girl(boy also) when she is far away from you, its so cruel to miss your love because it drives you crazy sometimes, you won't be able to sleep properly, eat properly, always her thoughts "when will i meet her ?"..  Yes Yes i have also experienced it, i became a maniac for few days, whenever i close my eyes, its her pretty  face that flashes, if i hear a love song, its her thoughts.

This is my love story...........................................fell in love with a girl, she is from a different city and stays in the college hostel, we were together exactly for 105 days, from morning till evening 6 30, always roaming here and there, sitting together, sharing stories, gossips, cracking jokes and off course had fights too.while i'd go home also, we'd be continuously texting and as soon as i reach home, we used to call and talk for sometime. We even celebrated our 25th, 50th, 75th and 100th day, then she went home for holidays. she enjoyed at her home and i also did, but after few days i started missing her, thinking about her, so much emotions and feelings. "In love, all these feelings are temporary only, but you'll feel permanent or full in that little while, that's why love is so special and love easily beats all other relationships".  

"When you love a person truly and then miss him or her, all you will feel is pain, pain and pain". Its good to miss your loved ones because the more you miss them, the more you will love them when they are near you. Missing my love is raw pain, but i enjoy that pain...its a sweet pain, feel it and love it...

FINALLY 

There is one person who is always near us and we just think about him when we need something and in good times we tend to forget him and hence we don't miss him at all. If suppose he goes away from us, we wouldn't have our breath also, so he doesn't go little far also. He also stays near you and you can depend upon him anytime, anywhere because he is yours...Hope you guessed who...WHO ? ???????.....YES its GOD.